Self-Harm

Self-harm, also known as self-injury, means hurting yourself on purpose. While cutting (using a sharp object to pierce your skin) is the most common form of self-harm many other forms exist, including burning, scratching or hitting body parts. Self-harm often first manifests itself in adolescence or young adulthood and is typically used as a way to cope with emotional pain. Individuals who have experienced trauma, neglect or abuse are particularly susceptible to self-harming behaviors. Self-harm can be a passing phase, but it is sometimes a symptom of a more serious psychiatric problem, like anxiety, depression, borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, or schizophrenia, so it is important to take it seriously. Whether you, or a child in your care, has recently started hurting yourself or you’ve been doing it for a while, there is help available! Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s self-harm experts today.

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Intensively trained Dialectical Behavioral Therapy counselor. DBT has been shown to help with self-harm behaviors.

— Lori Obbie, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in Deer Park, WA

I have extensive training, expertise, and experience treating non-suicidal self-injury (NSSI), and I am happy to provide a complimentary consult to anyone engaging in self-harm or having urges to self-harm, to determine whether DBT-informed therapy could be an effective treatment option.

— Carrie Covell, Psychotherapist in Beverly Hills, CA
 

I have 8 years of experience working with individuals that have significant urges to harm themselves or are experiencing suicidal ideation. I think that recognition, honesty, openness, and having a supportive ally, are really important steps in beginning the path of challenging self harm urges and actions.

— Sam Anderson, Clinical Social Worker in Golden Valley, MN

Building skills and supports to cope with emotional pain, suffering, and numbness; increasing positive meaningful life experiences

— Hannah Brooks, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New York, NY
 

I work with teens and adults who experience self-harming thoughts and behaviors to help them process their experiences.

— Charmaine Perry, Licensed Professional Counselor in Edison, NJ

Whether through cutting, hitting, or using a "good" behavior to the point of hurting ones self, many people will try to soothe distressing emotions or thoughts by hurting themself, usually beginning in their teen years. In session, we will talk through the purpose of the behavior, what it "gives", and find safer alternatives to achieve the same goals, while also working through the pain which led to the self-harm in the first place.

— Elizabeth Bolton, Licensed Professional Counselor in Cypress, TX
 

When a person becomes overwhelmed and distressed, they may look to various avenues of relief to reduce their uncomfortable feelings, including self-harm. Self harming behaviors can be seen as a coping skill that a person acquires when they do not have other tools in their toolbox to navigate the challenges they may face. When working to address self harm, the main focus of treatment is finding new coping skills that encourage healing and help keep a person safe when facing distress.

— Kristina Altomari, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Boston, MA

Using Cognitive behavioral Therapy (CBT), I am able to guide you to healthier coping mechanisms.

— Darcy Barillas, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor

I understand that there is a difference between self-harm and suicidal behavior and have experience helping people learn adaptive coping strategies.

— Debbie Duquette, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Madison, AL
 

I am trained in DBT, and work with individuals engaging in self harm.

— Samantha Reitz, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Redondo Beach, CA

I specialize in helping clients understand and manage self-harm behaviors by teaching coping strategies and fostering emotional regulation. I work to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where clients can explore their feelings and develop healthier ways of expressing and managing emotional pain.

— Samantha Wong, Licensed Professional Counselor Associate in Houston, TX
 

I help people identify triggers that make them feel overwhelmed by their emotions and help them to find healthy ways to feel more in control.

— Courtney Dunn, Clinical Social Worker in yonkers, NY

Self-harm or non-suicidal self-injury can be misunderstood by many. I have worked with many adolescents and adults who use this coping strategy. My experience comes from several arenas both professional and personal.

— Annia Salas, Licensed Professional Counselor
 

I provide a safe, nonjudgmental space for individuals struggling with self-harm. I understand that self-harm often arises as a coping mechanism for overwhelming emotions. My approach focuses on helping you uncover the underlying issues, develop healthier coping strategies, and rebuild self-compassion. Together, we’ll work toward breaking the cycle of self-harm and creating a foundation for healing and emotional well-being.

— Thalia Stevenson, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in Miami Gardens, FL

I utilize DBT, an evidence based treatment used to treat emotion dysregulation, suicidal ideation, and self-harm. Clients have significantly decreased, suicidal ideation, and self-harm by increasing skills in four core areas. Diary card mechanics and phone coaching are utilized as part of treatment modality.

— Amy Hunter, Licensed Professional Counselor in West Hartford, CT
 

I specialize in working with individuals struggling with self-harm, providing a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore underlying emotions and triggers. Using evidence-based approaches such as Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and mindfulness techniques, I help clients develop healthier coping strategies, improve emotional regulation, and build self-compassion. My goal is to empower clients to address the root causes of self-harm while fostering resilience, self-awareness, and healing.

— Matia Wilson, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

I use my years of experience and education to address issues that individuals with self-harm behaviors face.

— Autumn Brown, Addictions Counselor